Ladies, be honest, do you sometimes like to show your bra a little? It happens. I do not intentionally draw attention to it, but if it peeks out I certainly do not recoil and wither in shame. Americans (especially older ones) are still rather puritanical. There is nothing wrong with flesh or the "undergarments" that cover it. I definitely do not mind catching glimpses of it or feel ashamed if others glimpse mine. As for what guys think or like or prefer and what they may or may not be looking at or thinking, I really could not care less.
It is not (always) a matter of "advertising". Take a moment to consider that some females do not dress with the idea of impressing or attracting you or any other man they may pass on the street. Some females are actually individualists with likes and dislikes of their very own that even carry over into the way that they dress.
They may dress in a way that pleases them without any care to how others may perceive them. I notice a lot that people are so preoccupied with "personal freedom" that they refuse to accept that some things are an expression of personality but all needs to stay within some sort of boundaries and perspective. Rules are not as rigid anymore as they once were, but that doesn't mean that there aren't any left.While we shouldn't judge a book by its cover, I can tell by some book covers that it would be a book I am not interested in even leafing through. And a colorful crazy book will never be looked at the same way an expensive leather-bound one, as the exterior usually is matched to the content. Cheap crazy cover, cheap crazy content. Like it or not, it is what it is. I always say that there is a time and place for everything. There is a time for showing your bra straps in your bedroom when things get heated, I am sure, but not in a business setting. You wouldn't show up to a funeral in your bikini, even if the weather was hot, would you? What makes that rule more applicable than any other that makes sense? You can say it is out of respect. Well, it works both ways.
It is not (always) a matter of "advertising". Take a moment to consider that some females do not dress with the idea of impressing or attracting you or any other man they may pass on the street. Some females are actually individualists with likes and dislikes of their very own that even carry over into the way that they dress.
They may dress in a way that pleases them without any care to how others may perceive them. I notice a lot that people are so preoccupied with "personal freedom" that they refuse to accept that some things are an expression of personality but all needs to stay within some sort of boundaries and perspective. Rules are not as rigid anymore as they once were, but that doesn't mean that there aren't any left.While we shouldn't judge a book by its cover, I can tell by some book covers that it would be a book I am not interested in even leafing through. And a colorful crazy book will never be looked at the same way an expensive leather-bound one, as the exterior usually is matched to the content. Cheap crazy cover, cheap crazy content. Like it or not, it is what it is. I always say that there is a time and place for everything. There is a time for showing your bra straps in your bedroom when things get heated, I am sure, but not in a business setting. You wouldn't show up to a funeral in your bikini, even if the weather was hot, would you? What makes that rule more applicable than any other that makes sense? You can say it is out of respect. Well, it works both ways.
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